Monday, June 29, 2015


 


  So I love the summer time and being able to explore the amazing sites our East Coast surroundings offer.    We try to take the kids somewhere each weekend, and I lay the schedule out months in advance.  This creates great memories and is my attempt to avoid the dreaded  I’m bored phrase and replace it with the are we there yet phrase J   And if any of you know with I-95 in the mix, are we there yet always makes me a liar. 
  Originally we had planned to take the kids to Busch Gardens, but due to the downpour expected we hastily changed our plans to take them to Philadelphia for the night.  We left home at 9am and our expected 3 hour “tour”, due to my best friend I-95, took us 5 hours. 
  For our first stop, we tried to stop at the famed Pat or Genos (they are across the street from each other) for philly cheesesteaks, but the parking was awful and the lines were long (I recommend taking a cab here if you are staying in the city) so we continued on to our next stop Eastern State Penitentiary.  We were starving so we had lunch across the street from the penitentiary at Jacks Firehouse.  Mav devoured his French toast, Abby enjoyed her BLT Cesar, I liked my Brisket Sandwich, but the hubby was not impressed with his dry philly cheesesteak. 
  After lunch we continued across the street to the famed eastern State Penitentiary that was operating  from  1829 to 1971 housing the likes of Al Capone and reportedly very haunted.  It was pouring during our self-guided tour there but we enjoyed the audio tour led by famed Steve Buscemi and I enjoyed the fun while learning aspect for the kids.  The newly renovated Synagogue and Chaplins Murals were an added bonus (this was my third visit and I really reccomend going to there annual halloween haunted house). 
  After we finished at the penitentiary we hopped in the car and proceeded to the nearby Philadelphia Museum of Art so the kids could see the Rocky Statue and the famed Rocky Steps.  I stayed in the car while Dad hopped out with them.  They ran up the 72 stone steps and the heavens started dumping right when they got to the top.  They quickly ran back down and hopped in the car.  We proceeded on to our hotel. 
  We stayed at the Inn at Penn- By Hilton, which honored government rate of $171 a night
J  The room was very nice and near the center of town, but on the college campus, so since the students are away it was very quiet.  The room was nicely appointed and very high tech including an ipad to connect with the front desk.  The morning buffet which was included had a delicious spread. 
  For dinner we went to Penne, the restaurant at the hotel (there are not a lot of options near the hotel).  We started with an order of calamari.  For entrees I had the most amazing caprese salad I have ever had.  The mozzarella was so fresh and the tomatoes were so flavorful.  The hubby enjoyed his steak as well.  The kids enjoyed the wood fired pizzas we brought them back to the room finished by amazing coconut tiramisu.
  The next morning we left the hotel and went to check out Reading Terminal Market, the
Famous indoor farmer's market offering diverse fare, housewares & area specialties since 1892.  We walked through the whole market, which was not crowded as it normally is because on Sundays all the Amish vendors are closed.  Abby and Abner selected fresh fruit smoothies which were delicious.  Mav got Ice cream from Bassets and we took home a new table cloth from Contessas French Linens (these are teflon coated so wipeable and beautiful without feeling like plastic) and out of this world fresh cannolis from Termini Brothers. 
  On our way out of town we did quick stops at Benjamin Franklin’s grave, the Liberty Bell, Independence Hall, and Eagles Stadium.  Along with a stop at Phantom Fireworks to bring home some fun.  A short but super fun trip.  Until the next one, Cheers!

Monday, June 15, 2015

Friends are the Family You Choose


"Friends are the family you choose." - Jess C. Scott
 

These are my girls, Monica and Bridgette.   I thank you for being my friends, for always being there and for showing up when I need you. It's been said that 80% of success is showing up. I think this is true of friendship, as well.

I've been mulling over, about what and how to write about my love for them. After many failed attempts, I realized my words would never be enough because our friendship has not been defined by words, but by actions.

When I moved to Virginia from California in 2009 I had such a sense of loneliness that I could not describe.  I had felt it for the past 7 years and just thought that it was part of life.  Upon rekindling my friendship with Monica and building my friendship with Bridgette I realized that the hole could be filled.  Just saying their names makes me smile.  I’m happy to not only call you friends but sisters.

Sometimes I feel like being my friend must be a lot of work. I’m loud, talkative, and just a bit crazy.  But you both love and accept me for those traits. I love you both very much and I hope and pray that I've been as good a friend to each of you, as you've both been to me.   Here are 35 reasons for my 35 years on this planet on how I am thankful for both of you:
1.      Thank you for always being my best supporters.
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.      Thank you for not judging me for my sometimes poor decision-making skills.
3.      Thank you for late-night conversations.
4.      Thank you for remembering every inside joke we have ever created.
5.      Thank you for the long drives you have taken just to spend time with me.
6.      Thank you for being brutally honest with me when I am being ridiculous.
7.      Thank you for respecting my values and opinions, even if you disagree.
8.      Thank you for loving my family like you love your own.
9.      Thank you for bringing me into your family, for you both know it means the world to me.
10.  Thank you for pouring large glasses of wine/vodka.
11.  Thank you for being brave enough to let me in and be vulnerable to me.
12.  Thank you for fighting all of life's battles by my side.
13.  Thank you for celebrating all of the exciting moments of my life with me. I can't imagine not having either of you by my side.
14.  Thank you for filling that hole in my heart that seemed impossible to fill.
15.  Thank you for forgiving me for every time I haven't been the best friend in the entire world.
16.  Thank you for all that you've taught me.
17.  Thank you for always making me feel like the crazy stories of my day are important.
18.  Thank you for making me feel beautiful, smart and funny through thick and thin.
19.  Thank you for every gushy text you send me to encourage me when life is really crappy.
20.  Thank you for every dorky, sentimental holiday and birthday gift or handmade card you knew I would absolutely love.
21.  Thank you for the moments of silence we share together, where words don't need to be said, but we know we are in it together.
22.  Thank you for being the best wing-women a girl could ever ask for.
23. Monica thank you for being my road dog and Bridgette thanks for cheering us on.
24.  Thank you for always being ready to bust out the dance moves with me.
25.  Thank you for defending me when I continue to lay out the door mat.
26.  Thank you for reminding me to stay true to myself.
27.  Thank you for continuing to be true to yourself as well, because I think you both rock.
28.  Thank you for listening to my long stories as though you haven't already heard them a million times.
29.  Thank you for always making time for me, no matter how far away you are.
30.  Thank you for being strong when I am weak.
31.  Thank you for making the good times better and the hard times easier.
32.  Thank you for all of the wonderful memories and to the lifetime of memories to come.
33.  Thank you for believing in me when I don’t believe in myself.
34.  Thank you for your sharing your secrets with me.
35.  Thank you for sharing your life with me for without you two my life would be a whole lot emptier.

Marlo Thomas and Gloria Steinem met in 1967 when an agent pitched the idea of Marlo playing Gloria in a TV-movie. The movie never happened (and the agent turned out to be quite offensive), but the two activists have remained friends ever since. Says Marlo about Steinem, “We have been confidantes,"I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

When it Snows I will Burry my Head in the Sand!


  So January and February brought lots of snow to the great state of lovers, Virginia.  I hate the snow and will run from it like a burning building.  It is mainly the wearing socks and jackets part I hate the most. 
  It just so happened that in January and February the hubby had a work trip to Miami. Chaching the sun gods do love me!  I headed down at the end of January leaving Mav with my brother (I am happy to report that Mav, the animals and the house survived). 
  The hubby and I enjoyed four days of sun filled fun.  While he worked I explored South Beach (never walk on the A1A, when you do a walk about, as it is really long and hot, like 12 miles long back to the hotel), then as a reward of my long walk I sunned on the roof top pool with cocktails.  We took a two day trip to the Keys and had the best key lime pie of our life at Blue Heaven (we shall forever chase that dragon), it was the perfect mix of lime offset by meringue.  We stayed at the Waldorf Astoria (thanks Hilton Honors points) and just enjoyed each others company.
  I returned to Virginia so sad and cold.  I had not had my fix of the sun, so 2 weeks later for Valentines weekend the little and I headed to meet him in Ft Myers.  The flight with Frontier was dirt cheap and the lodging was free :-)  We stayed at my Aunts house and enjoyed sun filled days of air boat rides, gators, good food and family.

Thursday, June 4, 2015

Handmade Gift Exchange-Deadline 6/7

Cards I Made
  So I love to craft!  Glitter, Washi Tape, Markers and all things lovely keep me sane.  Going into my magical crafting world is a very happy place for me where time stops and I am brought back to memories of coloring with my Grammy.   
  Just like I use any excuse to throw a party, I will use any excuse to craft.  Twice a year, Craftaholics Anonymous hosts a Handmade Gift Exchange for readers and crafters everywhere. Participants make a handmade gift for another crafter with whom they are paired. This is a great way to make a gift AND a friend!
  I have done this twice now and really look forward to it.  It is that time of year again and I have signed up.  You should do it too!!  Sign ups end 6/7 and you have to send your gift by 7/1.  The first time I made a set of cards, the second time I did cards and a mason jar soap dispenser.  I am still up in the air with what I will do this time.




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Wreath I Made out of Paper

Niagara Falls Adventure

Heading off on the Journey
Heading to the Casino for the Bachelorette Party!
2 for 1 Martini Night!
Night 2 Back at the Casino!






Hanging with the Groom
Beautiful Bride and Best Man
Ice Wine Tasting in Canada
  So some months back my childhood friend Rachel told me she would be getting married in Niagara Falls.  It is only an 8.5 hour drive from my home so since she would be coming all the way from California I just had to be there.  Plus Niagara Falls has always been on my bucket list.  I knew there perfect person to bring to the home of romance.  My best friend Monica!  Road trips with her are the best!  We roll down the windows and sing our hearts out to Britney Spears, Nelly, TLC and lots of other amazing road trippy stuff.  The hubby is not a singer like us so it is better to long road trips with someone who is crazy like me.
  In order to pay for the trip we did a wedding the week before with my side business Absolutely Fabulous Events.  A tip for people, your spouse is much more apt to let you go on trips when you finance it with side money.
  We stayed on the American side the first two nights at the Red Coach Inn.  It is reportedly haunted with the ghost of a woman who was bludgeoned on her wedding night (Monica and I are suckers for Ghosts).  We received a 10% triple A discount.  When booking never be afraid to call the place and see if they offer any discounts that apply to you.  The place came with breakfast which was a savings as well.
  We had dinner on the Canadian side (It takes 10 minutes to get back and forth between the two sides just bring a passport or birth certificate for those under 18) at Copa Cabana Brazillian Steak House and it was amazing.  It was fun to catch up with the bride and her parents and get to know the groom.  We took the bride back with us to the american side to go to the Casino for her Bachelorette Party.  It was 2 for 1 Martini night and we tried them all.  There was also a great DJ and we had a blast.
  The next morning we explored the falls.  The cave of the winds had not opened yet because the walkway is torn down and rebuilt each year and we have had a cold winter (it was May and there was still ice in the water). 
  The wedding was beautiful and intimate right in front of the falls and I was so happy to be there for it.  After the wedding we had dinner at the Red Coach Inn followed by a quick nap and a meet up at the Casino again.  This night was a band and we had fun with four other friends that had come.
  The next day Monica and I headed off to Niagara on The Lake in Canada for wine tasting.  We went to Inniskillin first because it is the most famous; the wine was good but the tasting was impersonal and pricey at three varieties for $15.  Next stop was Lailey Winery a very small winery that gave a great tasting and had amazing wine if you bought a bottle the tasting was free and the bottles were moderatly priced.  The final stop was two sisters.  A large new winery that was both personal and had good wine.  The tasting was discounted if you bought wine. 
  After wine tasting we checked into our amazing b&b Mary Street Bed and Breakfast.  The owner was so warm.  Or room had a private balcony and was very moderate at $150 for the night and it came with breakfast.  I try to always stay at places with a free breakfast to lower costs.  We went to site see downtown and finished it off with a wonderful lunch of poutine (traditional canadian dish of fries, gravy and cheese curds) at the haunted Olde Angel Inn.  We were exhausted from 2 nights of the casino so we went back and used the Jacuzzi and then settled into bed.  We woke up to a great breakfast then rode off into the sunset.



Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Kitchen Remodel

Before
After
 

Two Tone with a Subtle Hint of Green


Bead Board Accent









 




Sink Pic as Requested
With Puppy for Cuteness
 
 



 
 
  So in case you have not picked up on it already I will establish it now. I am crazy! Not boil a bunny crazy, more quirky Phoebe Buffay crazy.
   I can not handle builder grade oak cabinets, linoleum or formica counters in any house I live in. I have to rip them out as soon as possible. In the 13 months we have lived in our house we have ridded the house of all things I can't handle.
   I am in love with solid surface counters. I love the integrated single large sink feature of them. I love the single sink because you can bathe puppies, babies or tiny elephants. Also they clean up so nice. Mine are cream and so pretty. A wonderful departure from the blue grey formica counters they replaced that did not go with anything. I had an amazing local guy Brian with Custom Solid Surface counters do them. I try to go local when possible as I feel the customer service is better and I like to keep the money in our community.
   For the builder grade oak cabinets I did not want to deal with the downtime of ripping them out and the bases were in good condition. I also did not want to risk damaging the tile floors the previous owner put in. I painted our cabinets in our last house and I would rather give birth than ever do that again. Also I wanted new, heavier, better quality doors. I got many quotes and went with a local company Pro refinish. I had the cabinets refaced with new, solid wood shaker doors and drawer fronts with a two tone painted finish. I chose a light green color for the island for a little pop of color. The light cabinet colors brighten up our cozy kitchen. We had new crown molding and bead board installed on the end panels for a custom look. Soft close hinges and new pulls added the final touches of this complete transformation.
   Total down time was less than a week. It was one day for the counters and 3 days for the cabinets. And to top it off I am in love and the kitchen makes me smile. I finished it off with bits of southern love.

Catching Up


Lil Miss Fabulous Heading off into the Sunset at 2
  So I am known as a bit of a story teller. I have been telling stories and heading off on adventures and telling stories as long as I can remember.  I love to share my adventures, and always do so in an animated fashion.  So now I am going to have to play a bit of catch up over the next few weeks filling this section with recent trips and tips.  I like to travel often and hope to give tips to make it possible for others too.  If you do not see a locale you are interested in, chances are I may have been there and will have some off the wall tips and so just shoot me a message and I will be happy to share.  Cheers to many Ab Fab adventures.